That defining moment…

Which is that defining moment for an acquaintance to become a close friend, a close friend to a dear buddy and that dear buddy to a lover? As cheesy as it sounds, relationships and their nature are indeed beyond words so to speak! Then again, the human psychology is such- as many minds, so many ways.

Yet, typically it’s about that connect isn’t it? For any relationship to bloom there is some wiring that either simply works or not, then how else would you explain the uncanny ability with which we complete some one’s words, complement their thoughts and simply communicate without symbolism whatsoever! Also, on the other hand years could roll by you simply fail to understand that one person, their ways and a natural unconscious comfort is never found between the two of you…

How long you have known a person, how similar you are, etc., - though heavily influence that connect, you could just hit off when there is spontaneity that is easy flowing and neither needs to mask their true selves.  Probably once such person weighs over dozens of random friends who linger nowhere other than Fb chat list, but how do we know, it’s him/her??

Is it  when that comfort blanket surrounds you on the crappiest of days, when you smile to yourself stuck in an agonizing jam, when you feel confident all the time, or when it’s just that you finally realize there is that one person, whose little world you run! J